Monday, April 18, 2016

A real Lady


My dog Lady was a little bully when she was young. She aggravated our collie Katie, and she thought she was the alpha in the house. She'd nip at me to let me know I wasn't doing what she wanted, and, naturally, she was always getting into trouble.

Once, she crushed my glass case and broke a pair of my prescription glasses. I guess she thought she owned my glasses.

But that's been nearly seven years. Lady's nearly nine years old, and she's slowly growing into an elder stateswoman. About a year ago, our other dog, Buddy, was barking at me — yes, at me, of all people — and Lady turned to him and bit him on the side of the face. Nothing hard; she just wanted to let him know that he needed to cool it.

Last weekend, the TV cable guy was standing with me on the deck, and the dogs were in the backyard. Buddy was going nuts, snarling and jumping up onto the side of the deck. Lady looked at him, took a couple of steps forward and slammed her front paws into him. That knocked him off the side of the deck. He started again, and she nailed him again. He didn't cool down, but he backed off a bit.

Then this week, we were at the dog park and a big, black dog was bullying a smaller dog. Lady took a few steps forward and used her front paws to bump him off the other dog. He backed off, and Lady trotted away, her mission accomplished.

People say that Lady is becoming more like me — quiet, thoughtful, patient — but I don't remember knocking loud jerks down with my front paws.

NOTE: Lady unofficially turned 15 years old in October of 2015.

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Saturday, April 16, 2016

Uneasy lovin'

I THINK OF THIS PHOTO AS WICKED LADY.
I always wanted a dog, but it never worked out. My dad got me one as a boy, but it died three days later from heartworms. I didn't name it and never petted it.

When I was about to turn 50, my wife and I got a pretty dog from the animal shelter that we renamed Lady, and I thought I was set. I'd get unconditional love, all the licks on the face I could stand, a constant companion. We'd walk in the park; she'd come runnin' when I'd call "Lady, come!"

Instead, I got a little hardhead who only seemed to come around when (a) she was hungry or (b) she wanted to go outside. I'm not talking about going outside to answer nature's call; she just wanted to be closer to nature and farther from me.

Three times in 10 days, she got out of the yard. The first time, I drove out, she saw me, I stopped and opened the door, and she jumped into my lap. The next time, the next day, I had to herd her down a driveway, and she jumped into my wife's van. A hot dog was the lure. The third time, she gave us a merry chase. In fact, I couldn't find her, and I gave up, with the hope that she'd go home. I felt like I was being stalked, so I looked in the rearview mirror and saw Lady racing up the road behind my car.

She wouldn't get in, but she finally went home, again to a hot dog in Holly's hand.

When we got a second dog, a collie named Katie, I started getting more loving. Once Katie came out of her shell — she was shell-shocked for about two weeks — she'd sit beside me at the computer. Lady would be in the basement or outside most of the time.

Slowly, though, Lady's behavior changed. She wasn't quite as finicky about her food. Katie would eat just about anything, and Lady would look on with envy, then go back and eat a few more morsels of her Kibble. Sometimes they'd switch bowls, to see how the other half was eating.

Katie's presence meant more attention. Once Katie started lying beside me, Lady would come around for companionship. She's spent less time in the yard, probably because she had a canine companion.

The whole dynamic changed again when we got our third dog, Buddy. Lady acted as his surrogate mother, and they played constantly.

But occasionally, I got Lady's companionship and full attention ... during a lightning storm. Before Katie, Lady would go to the basement and huddle alone in the corner during storms. No more.

As I wrote this, the lightning was sparking overhead, and hail was hammering the house. Katie was in her cage, and Buddy was out in the hallway. Lady was in the safest spot in the house, under my desk. Her nose was between my size 14s, in easy petting distance. Sometimes, I have been at the computer during lightning storms, and Lady was in the unsafest place in the house: in the nook between the desk beside me and the file cabinet. It filled her need to be tucked in a den in her pack, but there are plenty of electric wires to fry a 40-pound North Carolina chow hound.

But Lady feels safe here.

If I could figure out a way to simulate the rain (tape recording?), the lightning (strobe), and the thunder boomers (Dolby Surround Sound), I'd never be alone again. Lady'd be right here, huddling between my feet or up against my leg.

Safe and snug and loved.

(NOTE: This was originally written 10 years ago or so. Lady's more than 15 years old now and weighs about 56 pounds.)

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